Obey your parents in the Lord

Ps Inkyu Choi, 30:42 min

Published on 11 May 2025

In a world filled with cultural differences, conflicting opinions, and generational gaps, we are invited to pause and remember the foundational values of respect, obedience, and love as taught in Scripture. Through readings from Ephesians 6 and Deuteronomy 5, and heartfelt pastoral reflections, we are reminded that true respect begins with listening—first to God, then to one another. Obedience is not about blind submission but about attentive hearts that seek to honor both our earthly parents and our Heavenly Father.

Key Takeaways:

  • Biblical Obedience is Conditional: Scripture calls us to “obey in the Lord.” This means our obedience must align with God’s truth and love, not cultural or societal pressures.
  • Respect is a Two-Way Street: While children are called to obey, parents and spiritual leaders are called to nurture without provoking anger, creating safe environments both at home and in the church.
  • Cultural Sensitivity is Important: Cultural differences can cause misunderstandings, but the Gospel transcends culture. True Christian leadership separates cultural habits from biblical truth.
  • Listening Comes Before Obedience: The Greek word for obedience emphasizes listening. Before we can act in faith, we must first hear God’s word clearly amidst the noise of the world.
  • Church Unity Requires Mutual Respect: Conflicts often arise in churches because individuals seek to lead without respecting others. True leadership is humble and serves with love.
  • We Teach Best by Example: Our children and future generations will learn to respect God by witnessing our sincere worship and humble service.

Reflection: Are we creating spaces in our homes, churches, and communities where love, respect, and spiritual growth flourish? How might we better listen to God and one another this week?